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Stayck
If you really love somebody then you will love them forever, because love never dies. This is why you are feeling the way you do. However, even if you do love somebody it doesn't mean that you will get together or stay together.
It may be simply that your time with this person has ended now. Of course, you will not stop having feelings for him, but you have to except what you had before is over.
If he ended the relationship in such an abrupt manner and then took so long to talk to you as to why he did this, then when he did it all sounded a little odd and as if something was up, I think we can say he has some stuff going on that needs sorting out.
Give him the space he needs to do this. You can be a support, but if you are in it simply to get him back it won't be fair on either of you. He needs time and space to sort out his emotions and issues, so your desire to rekindle what he has finished is more about you than him. If you love him, you will put his needs first. This is love.
I can understand that you feel sadness, this is normal, but emptiness means you have made this person your everything which is wrong. If we make other people or things our world, then what happens to our world when they go away or are taken away....? Our world collapses. Maybe he ended it all because of this reason...? It can be draining for a person if somebody "loves" them in this kind of way.
If you are still confused about the reasons he told you he split up with you, then tell him and ask him to explain better. He at least owes you this.
No real love is ever really lost. It just moves on or transforms. |