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Divination > Week of 18 Aug 2008
Submitted by: Julie
Question: I had a dream about attending my deceased father's funeral. He died 13 years ago. At the funeral, someone shoved a brown paper bag in my hands with old documents and lots of money. I'm trying to decipher what message I'm being given in this dream.
Date and Time of Birth: 13 Apr 1957
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Answer: Hello Julie This dream may mean that you were meant to inherit something, or some important documents will soon be made available to you. If you knew the person or not who gave you the paper bag will be significant as well. Keep recording you dreams about this and keep me posted! I love dream interpretations.

Submitted by: Sharron
Question: When will a new love come into my life? I have been alone for a while now and would love to share my life with someone
Date and Time of Birth: 23 Feb 1957
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Answer: Dear Sharron If the truth be known, you could go out into town and find a man right now. It isn't hard to get one. What you want and need is somebody special or the right person for you. These kind of men do not fall out of the sky every five minutes. They only come when the time is right for you, when the time is right for him and when the time is right for the universe. If you have a desire to share your life with somebody special I truly believe it will happen. In the meantime, live and enjoy your life as much as you can. You are more likely to come across that special person whilst living your life than waiting at home or worrying about not being with somebody. Share your life with other people, animals, plants, just get on with sharing it and when the special person comes along you will be in full life sharing mode when he arrives. Keep sharing and caring.

Submitted by: calisue
Question: Dear Starbright, I have been married for 17 years. My husband had an affair with our previous nanny after she left. He is passive agressive and I agressive. WE have 3 children, both work, but differ in a large number of areas. WE have love, but it borders on anger frequently. He and I have sought couseling. I am wondering what you see as an outcome of our painful but stobborn love relationship. Sometimes I want to run away but I am stopped by either fear or love. Thanks, Calisue
Date and Time of Birth: 15 Nov 1966
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Answer: Dear Calisue You have a very good understanding of your unhealthy relationship with your husband. You know exactly where you are going wrong, but you still seem to keep doing it. This leads me to believe that you and your husband are in a codependancey type of relationship. You are both getting something you need from each other and this is why you are still together. The counselling will only work if you want it to. You can still love each other and be apart. You need to do this because you are going no where positive together. Who knows, if you both separate and heal separately maybe the healed, new and improved both of you can get back together and start something new and better or stay apart and just be really good friends. You would make good friends because you know each other so well and for better and for worse. That has to be endings for new beginnings to happen.

Submitted by: CM
Question: I am a gay male and my signficant other moved out last March (no animosity,he was previously married with children and has had difficulty with his coming out issue although he has told his ex-wife and his parents) we have remained in contact, the apartment I live in is in bith our names, the extra bedroom remains full of his children;s toys, clothes games, tec... as well as large numbers of his posessions remaing. I still love him and he says he loves me but is having "a hard time now" and can't "decide if i'm gay" He has left this relationhip with the mother of his children three times over his sexuality (she and I have discussed this she was aware of the issue when they got together-they were never married)and has repeatedly gone back over his father shaming and refusal to accept him. I have had several tarot readings on this by a couple of different people (people I know whose actual bias in this would that although he is a sweet, decent guy I should cut my losses snd move on)and their readings were fairly unequivocal that he will indeed move back in. I.m not ready at this time to let go and move on and I was wondering should I trust these readings or not?
Date and Time of Birth: 4 Jun 1955
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Answer: Hello CM I think I have replied to you before about you relationship. It is a pity you are still having moving in, moving out problems and your some times partner is still in "confusion" about his sexuality. What a headache you must be having. Forget the tarot cards. What do you want? A real relationhsip or on and off state of confusion? The recent eclipses mark a point of beginning an endings and people who have been in up and down, on and off reltaionships will be seeig some endings over the next 6 months. Why wait that long. Sort it out now or live for ever in the turmoil, it's your choice.

Submitted by: raven
Question: Hey there, I've been having a lot of spirits around me lately, touching my hands, cheeks, mouth, nose etc.. I was just wondering if there were any messages that they are trying to send me. I've also sensed Archangel Michael around me. Thank you for your time.
Date and Time of Birth: 25 Sep 1980
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Answer: Hi there Raven Well, aren't you lucky! This is beautiful because spirit is just letting you know they are there and watching and loving you. Unless they touch you at a specfic time everytime they do it, I don't think there is any other message other than the message of love. People say they see and feel Archangel Micheal, so the best thing to do is read up about what this angel represents and maybe there is a message in finding this out. In the meantime, enjoy the angel experiences!

Submitted by: EHBonds
Question: Recently I vacation's in another country met this a man who I care about a great deal we talk everyday and seem to be on the same page as far as our feeling are concern. Do you see this man in my future.
Date and Time of Birth: Not provided
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Answer: Hello EHBonds The real question is do you see this man in your future? Do you want him in your future? If so, make steps to make this happen. Take a dream, take positive action, make it real.

Submitted by: jc
Question: I am in love with man who I am told by others that he loves me as well. I believe these people as they are very close to him. It confuses me that he cannot come to me and let me know. Is he likely to do so soon. There are very strong positive vibes from those around him. I have not seen him for a week as he has been out of town and I due to go out myself. Is there any signs of us coming together soon.
Date and Time of Birth: Not provided
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Answer: Hello JC Why are you still waiting for him to make the first move? If you like him, you should approach him and ask him out. You are asking why he hasn't come to you to express how he feels and he could be asking himself the same question about you? Why should he declare his love first, why don't you do it? If you are scared to say something, why wouldn't he be scared as well? You can keep playing the waiting game or you can make the first move. It's up to you, but if he never comes to you, you can only blame yourself for not going to him. Be brave!

Submitted by: kary
Question: Can you please tell me what career is meant for me, which will fulfill the ache in me that needs a meaningful, fun, financially abundant outlet and give me the identity and sense of meaning and joy in life?
Date and Time of Birth: 28 Apr 1977
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Answer: Hello Kary No, I'm afraid I can't tell you this. Nobody can tell you this, this is something you need to know for yourself. If you don't know then you need to find out by opening your mind and your heart. The secrets of who we are are always known to ourselves, we only have to look inside and be brave enough to be our authentic selves. Go find your joy.

Submitted by: Cat
Question: Dear Starbright, I have been in a relationship with a man who is an alcoholic he knows i dont want to be with an active alcoholic so when ever he gets cravings he goes over to his sisters for a few days then comes back to me. He has been gone a his binge for 11 days now and i dont know what is going on, he says he loves me and he will talk to me on the 15th, will he want to try to stay sober so we can be together or will he leave me for good?
Date and Time of Birth: 15 May 1966
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Answer: Hello Cat Your partner probably does love you, but he is having some serious issues with the drink. This doesn't mean he loves you less, it just means that the alcohol is winning at the moment. The fact that he goes away to drink means he has some kind of care for you because he doesn't want you to see him drunk and to suffer what comes with him being drunk. You are a positive part of his life that he doesn't want to mess up, this is why he leaves and comes back when he isn't drinking. Naturally from your side of things, it still isn't a relationship, but for him he probably thinks he is doing a good thing. The best thing for him to do would be to get off the booze, but he needs help and it takes time. You ahave to decide if you want to be in this relationship because you are going to have to help him get through this. If you don't want this kind of responsibilty, then you are going to have to cut your losses now. You can't hope and wait for him to stay or leave. He isn't in control of his sober mind, the drunk mind rules him. If you want to stay with him you have to help him. Some tough decisions for you to make, but they have to be made.

Submitted by: Natalie
Question: I am in relationship with a man born in 11.12.1978. we were happy, but recently everything is making me unhappy.. does he truly love me?
Date and Time of Birth: 27 Aug 1985
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Answer: Hello Natalie If you have to ask that quetion, then I would suspect the answer is no....but before we get carried away with ourselves, you say in your letter that recently everything is making you unhappy. Is the unhappiness you feel coming from you and this is why you don't feel like he loves you? Do some soul searching and have a conversation with your boyfriend instead of trying to guess how he feels about you just ask him.

Submitted by: Puds
Question: I am in a very problematic marriage, my husband drinks and I cannot take anymore and want to leave.I work away from home during the week and 6 weeks ago met someone totally out of the blue I really connected with, or so I thought, today I find out he doesn't want a proper relationship (for what ever reason I do not know) but wants to stay friends and is sorry for leading me on, \i do not know whether to cut my losses and step back or hang in hoping he will change his mind ?
Date and Time of Birth: 24 Sep 1969
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Answer: Hello Puds First and foremost you have to deal with your marriage. If you want to leave your husband you should do this first before jumping into another relationship. The guy you met sounds confused himself, so you certainly do not want to get involved with him. There is no need to "wait" for him. You have your own life to sort out. It is better for both of you to just be friends at this point. If your husband does not get help for his drink problem, there is no positive future for you in this type of marriage. He obviosuly has some serious problems he is trying to ignore by drinking. You could stand by him and help him, but if he isn't prepared to help himself, then you should leave. Love is we stand by people when they need our help, but we should not take abuse, so if he is or starts to abuse you, then think of your own safety first. Give yourself some breathing space before you find somebody new.

Submitted by: CJ
Question: Is there a chance that i can get away of my debt? I always work hard but that may not be enough. Please i need some guidance.
Date and Time of Birth: 11 Aug 1983
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Answer: Hello CJ Working smarter is better than working harder. You can work really hard and make little money or work more smartly and make far more money. I have also read giving away money unconditionally brings money to you. Another thing you could try is approaching your debt in a non monetary way, thinking outside the box to create money or attract it to you. Finally monetary debt can have it's routes in emotional problems, so if you sort yourself out emotionally and spiritually you may find solutions to paying off your debts and also preventing yourself from getting into debt again. Pay the emotional and spiritual debts first.

Submitted by: helen111
Question: my little boy is very unwell last year he was thrown hard by a carer many times, we have only just found out can you tell me where to look for the damage, he is unable to walk hardly for the past 11 months he is very disabled as well (intellectually), he can't talk so he can't tell us where he was damaged. i know he is not long for this world but will he get justice in the courts. his name is Anthony Trevor neesome born 14th feb 1993
Date and Time of Birth: 9 Aug 1963
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Answer: Hello Helen I am really sorry to hear about this tragic crime done to your son. This is a very serious crime and should not go unpunished. Child abuse is totally unacceptable with absolutely no exceptions. Are you taking the person who abused your son to court? If so, make sure the lawyer you choose is familiar with cases like this. An experienced lawyer will know exactly how to manage a case like this. We can never guarantee justice through the court systems. We can only put faith in getting a just result. If you believe in karma, the person who did this will suffer the same pain they have caused you in another life. I am a person who prefers to see karma dished out in the wrong doers present life, but this rarely happens. The best thing to do is to not pin your entire hopes on justice. Yes, certainly go for it and fight for it all the way, but spending time loving your son and being positive around him is more important and beneficial to him and yourself than spending all of your energy on justice, especially if his time in his present incarnation is coming to an end. Your son may have chosen this life and these life events to learn something or to teach something. All that matters after all of our life dramas and traumas is the love we give and receive. Nevertheless I pray that you get justice, because justice for one is justice for all. I will pray that you do, but most of all I pray that love stays in your heart during this difficult time for you. Peace and Blessings to you.

Submitted by: dk
Question: Dear starbright.... my whole life is a big if right now? will I marry the guy I am dating right now?Hes really nice but he needs 3 years to setlle down. The project I was supposed to get has been given to another, the job i want is not offering me enough? please help..I am distressed!
Date and Time of Birth: 7 Jan 1979
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Answer: Hello DK Most people's lives are a big if, this is life. There are no guarantees. Some people find this exciting and adventurous and others find it stressful. It all depends on how you decide to see things. It is your choice. It doesn't have to be a stressful time. Stress is caused by your fear of the unkown outcome of the events in your life. Calm down and count your blessings. When you do this, you will actually see that your life isn't really stressful and you dont really have anything genuine to worry about. You will realise that you are causing the stress in your life and then hopefully you will choose not to react in a fearful way to apsects of your life in the future. Why spend time being stressed and fearful when you could be excited about things and in control of your reactions? Think how much more fun your life will be if you take the non fearful route. Be more positive and proactive and you will be more satisfied with results, even if they don't turn out exactly how you wanted them to turn out.

Submitted by: ana
Question: i have a problem with my ex boyfriend he evatually wont tell me his feelings towards me.he use to talk to me on the phone but now he seems distance from me i am worried if he does not want anything with me?or meybe he does not love me?
Date and Time of Birth: 26 Jul 1983
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Answer: Hello Ana Hmm, yes...this can be an uncomfortable situation when you feel your partner is slowly but surely moving away from you. The only thing you can do is ask him about his change of attitude towards you. Tell him what you have been feeling because it is obviously affecting you in a negative way. It may be something major, it may be something minor, but if you don't sort it out, it will only get worse and it is better for you to know where you stand. Don't think the worse until you have spoken to him honestly and openly. Whatever happens it will be for highest good for all, so try and find the positives in whatever occurs :0)